The Most Effective Parenting Styles

Effective parenting technique is a puzzling topic that sometimes burnt out experts and became a topic of brewing debates. However, developmental psychologists only began to study parenting and its influences on children in the 1920′s. Most experts studying the most effective parenting technique rely on the concept of Diana Baumrind’s three parenting styles, in which was found the authoritative parenting style to be the most balanced and healthiest.

Parenting can be seen as broad and limitless, when taking into consideration the differences in family values within the context of the norm, religious concepts, and many other ideals that shape the way parents deal with their children. Yet, failure in parenting cannot be solely blamed on specific instances but is seen as a typology of general practices of parents.

So what is the effective parenting technique? As broad as it might sound, authoritative parenting combines parental responsiveness and parental demandingness vis-à-vis the age of a child. Parental responsiveness (Terrific Parenting) describes a parent’s intent to foster self-regulation, individuality, and self-assertion by being supportive of and adjusting to a child’s needs and desires. Parental demandingness relates more to controlling a child’s behavior that is seen as inappropriate, and a parent’s willingness to enforce gentle disciplinary efforts, and confronting a child who intentionally disobeys or has committed a mistake.

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Improving Your Child’s Grades at County Schools

By Andrew Stratton

Your child’s grades are slipping and you are starting to wonder if you should start looking closer at other county schools to find one that is more appropriate for him. Before you start tearing your hair out and convincing yourself that the educational grass may be greener at another institution, there are things you can do to help him. Placing him in a different school may not be necessary at all.

As a parent, the first thing you can do is become better acquainted with what your youngster is being taught. Flip through his textbooks and notebooks. Ask questions. What materials are being covered? What is he learning? What expectations does the teacher have for her students? What does your child need to accomplish on a daily, weekly and monthly basis? Most county schools in the same area would follow a similar curriculum. Moving your kid to a new school therefore might prove futile because it will not address the issues he is facing with his studies.

To help your child to improve his grades, you need to communicate with his teacher. Call her up or request a meeting. Most teachers are more then happy to meet with concerned parents. They are pleased for any input that can help them to encourage a higher level of learning for their students.

Keep in mind that each classroom found in county schools will have its share of differences. Every teacher has her own way of instructing and how she comes across to pupils is not always the same. Not every child will be taught in the same manner, just as not every child’s style of learning is the same. As a parent, you need to know what your youngster is being taught as well as the way in which the material is being presented.

All county schools espouse a high standard of learning and do everything possible to help their students succeed. Having a strong gasp of the work is important, as is getting good grades that will enable them to pass and go onto the next grade. Let your voice be heard if you feel that the quality of education is not as high as it should be at the school your son or daughter attends.

To help your child bring up his grades, you need to make sure that you never miss any of the parent and teacher conferences that are scheduled. These provide you with progress reports for your son or daughter. The teacher can tell you exactly how your little student is doing and in what areas extra help, encouragement and support are required. In some educational facilities these meeting are not compulsory but are optional. As a parent of a child whose grades could be better, it would be wise for you to take advantage of every opportunity to speak openly and in private with your son or daughter’s teacher.

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Oakland County Father Custody

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Michigan is one of the best states for men to win custody of their children in divorce and even cohabitation cases. In Oakland County, father custody is becoming as common as mother custody. This may make you confident that you can win your custody case without too much stress, but don’t be overconfident; every child custody case is different, and it’s critical that you handle yours well if you want custody of those most important people in your life: your kids.

Start by being prepared, completely prepared. Make lists of the things you know about your ex that make her a bad parent, or even an immoral parent; do not use these yourself, but instead give them to your attorney. He will be able to build these into your Oakland County father custody case, and you won’t look like the bad guy for bringing them up.

Make another list of the things that make you a good parent – and a third list of the things that she will say make you a bad parent. Go over these with your attorney as well so he will know what to anticipate. More importantly, however, use that third list of bad things about you as a model for change. With each item, ask yourself: what’s more important, this behavior or having custody of my kids? Each item that falls short of the kids is an item you need to change in yourself, not just for the current case but permanently.

Why permanently? Because child custody is more than just a single court case. You are changing your life. If she sees it as a negative behavior, there’s a good chance that it is, even if you don’t want to think so. If that’s not enough of an argument, think about this: your initial child custody case may only be the first one in a series of challenges. If you do not commit to change right now, you will find yourself under increasing strain in the future, and eventually you will slip. If only one thing she says about you is proven true, it puts your entire case in doubt.

That means with your negative behaviors, you must commit to change early, or decide that you will not change them and be honest about it. Truth is your friend in the courtroom.

Remember, too, that she will be going through the same things – but with an (unfair) advantage, as she is the mother. If your children are very young, you will need to prove both that you are a good parent and that she is a bad one; courts are very reluctant to separate young children from a mother. Keep this in mind as you go through your case.

In court, always, always look and act confident. Half of people’s impression of you comes from how you want them to perceive you, and how you project that. Even though judges have seen this act come through a thousand times, your quiet confidence and demonstrated ability to work through this time of adversity will always work in your favor.

Remember, everything you are doing is for the sake of your kids. Winning child custody cases is hard, even in Oakland County; father custody cases enter the fray with significant strikes against them. But with care and attention, you can win that child custody case and raise your children yourself.

Brent Delaurentis is a father of a 6 year old girl and webmaster of The Child Custody Blog. Because he went through a long and painful custody battle he knows exactly how parents who have to go through this feel. Learn more about Brent and How He Won His Custody Case And How You Can Win Yours By Clicking Here [http://www.child-custody-strategies.com]

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